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Brother Orange and Matt Stopera from Buzzfeed<\/p><\/div>\n

As a language teacher, I emphasize the importance of language in cross-cultural communication. It\u2019s one of the direct pathways into another culture \u2013 it can mean that you\u2019re looking from inside, not outside. However, connecting with someone from another culture without knowing the language is certainly possible – and it happens all the time. I am reminded of that fact by the recent story on NPR<\/a> about \u201cBrother Orange\u201d and the lost cell phone.<\/p>\n

Matt Stopera, from Buzzfeed, had his cell phone stolen last year from a bar in New York City. Then, months later, he noticed pictures showing up on his new phone that he hadn\u2019t taken. They featured selfies by someone who looked Chinese and whom he started referring to as \u201cBrother Orange\u201d because a number of the photos included orange trees. Stopera posted one of the pictures on Buzzfeed, and the story was then spread on the Chinese social messaging service Weibo. Users of Weibo tracked down the man in the photo, who turns out to be a restaurant owner in the Southern Chinese city of Meizhou. In China, the story went viral and both men became minor celebrities. Brother Orange and Stopera started exchanging messages, and Matt decided to travel to Meizhou to meet him. On Buzzfeed Matt has described the experience<\/a>. It turned out that the two found that they got along very well and despite neither speaking the other\u2019s language, they became close friends. In the NPR interview with Stopera, he talks about the importance of non-verbal communication in their relationship:<\/p>\n

We had two translators, but, you know, you’d be surprised about how much nonverbal you can do with each other. You know, how much you slept. Did you sleep well? We also, in the middle of the trip, we developed this, you know, symbol where we tapped our hearts and said happy, happy, happy, happy whenever we, you know, had a moment. And so when I think about that, that’s just big.<\/p>\n

On the Buzzfeed page, Stopera also talks about the role of technology, describing the last day of his trip, being together with Brother Orange:<\/p>\n

The last morning of our trip. We don\u2019t have a translator for this part. This is it. The journey is over. What even happened?
\nWe sit in the back of the car. We both are holding back tears. When\u2019s the next time we\u2019re going to see each other? What will it be like? When is he coming to New York to visit me?\u00a0It\u2019s all up in the air.
\nIn that moment, I couldn\u2019t help but think about the boundaries we had broken down. It\u2019s 2015 and cell phones and computers have changed everything. Language boundaries aren\u2019t that real. We had happily chatted with each other using a translation app. There\u2019s an app for everything. Anything is possible. Thank you, Steve Jobs.<\/p>\n

In the end, the stolen cell phone seemed to Stopera to align with an aspect of Chinese culture he had learned about:<\/p>\n

I find out that part of the reason why my story resonated so well with the Chinese is that people learned about it during Chinese New Year. Bro Orange\u2019s nephew actually heard about my story spreading on the first night of the lunar moon. This is not an accident. It\u2019s a sign.
\nI start to believe more and more in the Chinese theory of destiny. It\u2019s big in Chinese culture and another reason why this story was so big there. This is more than just a series of crazy, random coincidences that changed our lives \u2014 it\u2019s fate.<\/p>\n

The experience leads Matt not only to insights into Chinese culture, but through the natural tendency to compare cultures to think about U.S. cultural practices:<\/p>\n

He let me into super-personal parts of his life. I went to his childhood climbing trees, a local temple, and his parents\u2019 house. We even paid tribute to his ancestors. I have a moment when he asks me how I pay tribute to my ancestors. I don\u2019t have an answer. Americans don\u2019t really do that. It\u2019s fucked up and makes me feel bad. Cultural differences, man!<\/p>\n

The sense\u00a0one gets from reading Stopera\u2019s account of his visit to Brother Orange is that despite the language barrier, there was a deep connection made between the two men. That happened in large part because of the welcoming nature of the Chinese people, and of Brother Orange and his family in particular. But it was also made possible by the openness Stopera demonstrated in experiencing a variety of Chinese cultural experiences very different from his normal way of life and his willingness to share those together with his new Chinese friend.<\/p>\n

\"mudbath\"<\/a>There\u2019s a nice segment, for example, about his experience in the mud baths. From the many pictures included in his travel account, it is clear that for many of those experiences, no verbal exchange was necessary.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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